I’m a dog lover. I’m one of those annoying people who show strangers pictures of my dogs. Ever since I was a little girl, my dogs have been a huge part of my life. I’ve been lucky to have many dogs and have been blessed to learn something different from each one. Like children, dogs have their own unique personalities. They can be goofy or serious, calm or rowdy—but they all share one important trait: they love you like mad.
Let me share some of the amazing life lessons I’ve learned from each one of my beautiful dogs:
Morgan: It’s okay to be lazy—every now and then. The problem with Morgan was that he was lazy all the time which led him to an early demise. If I’d been older (I was 2 years old), I would have taken him on long walks through the woods.
Maggie: Never run away. Maggie was always going on adventures “without permission”. Every time she took off, I’d cry until she got home. A few times she came home with injuries and sadly, one day she never came home. We searched for her for weeks without luck. Running away from home (or problems) is never a good idea.
Mitzi: You don’t have to be the biggest dog in the pack to be the leader. Mitzi, a little poodle who weighed about 10 pounds soaking wet, ruled the roost over Ben and Clyde—who together weighed nearly 200 pounds! In some situations in life, size does NOT matter!
Sammy: Live every minute like it may be your last. With a litter of pups crawling all over me, I happen to fall in love with Sammy. He was so sweet but much smaller and more fragile than the others. The owner told us not to take him because he had a heart condition and wouldn’t live very long. But sometimes your heart speaks louder than your brain and we took Sammy home. Although his life was very short (6 months) he was happy to be a member of our family and we were very lucky to have him.
Clumsy: You don’t have to be graceful to be beautiful. I know that’s a bad name for a dog, but honestly, if you’d met Clumsy you would agree. I never knew a dog could be so uncoordinated, and looking back, I wonder if there wasn’t something wrong with him. But he sure was beautiful…on the inside and out.
Ben: If someone is sick, let them know you care. Dogs know when you’re sick or not feeling well. One time I was in bed for about 3 days and Ben stayed with me the entire time. He refused to eat and had to be dragged outside with a leash to go to the bathroom. He quickly ran back inside and jumped in the bed with me. He let me know he was worried and that he loved me—all at the same time.
Clyde: Being smarter than everyone else isn’t nearly as important as being kind. Clyde was so gentle and loving but not the sharpest dog in the world. Fortunately, dogs don’t care if they’re not as smart as other dogs. They just live…and Clyde lived a very long and happy life.
Sadie: Happiness is a choice. When Sadie started to go blind, I mourned for her. I thought she’d never be happy again. The funny thing is that losing her sight didn’t affect her happiness at all. She was happy giving and receiving love—what’s more important than that?
Sandy: Be sweet and loving—even during difficult times. Sandy, Sandy…sweet as candy. I sang that little song to her over and over again during the 11 sweet years of her life. Sadly, Sandy developed a horrific form of intestinal cancer and we finally had to take her to the vet to put her down. She used every ounce of strength to be brave and strong in front of us. But when Dr. Vliet took her to the other room to prepare her for the injection, she collapsed and fell to the ground. Once they brought her back into the room, she garnered the strength to stand and kiss away my tears before lying back down to receive the inevitable injection. I will never forget her strength and love.
Samantha: Don’t let pain slow you down. Samantha, the great lover of all food, was the bionic dog. She loved life more than any dog I’ve ever had even though she suffered more pain than any others. After two ACL repairs, 2 major life-saving abdominal surgeries, and many other near-catastrophic events, Samantha developed severe arthritis in 3 out of her 4 legs. But it never slowed her down. Slowing down meant she might have missed something…and that was NOT Samantha.
Sydney: Always, always…listen to your gut. We all get those strong gut feelings from time to time. You try to wave them off but they eat at you. I had a horrible gut feeling about leaving Stella, Samantha and Sydney with the dog sitter we had been using. I knew he was lying to me about taking care of our girls. I KNEW IT! Sadly, I got the call that confirmed my bad gut feeling on New Year’s Day: Sydney was dead. Tom (the supposed dog sitter) had neglected them and they broke out of the house. So please, always listen to your gut.
Stella: Take your meds. I could write an entire novel about the antics of my big, beautiful Great Lab Stella. I call her a Great Lab because her mom was a Great Dane (named Molly) and her father was a horny black lab. Besides breaking into refrigerators to drink bottles of beer, and trying to dig her way to China, Stella has been a fragile but sweet girl. Since she was a small puppy, she’s always been a nervous dog who suffered from severe separation anxiety. Three years ago we asked our vet about anti-depression drugs for dogs. As crazy as it sounds, we tried Prozac (fluoxetine) and it worked! Stella became the happiest dog in the world. I only wish we had given it to her sooner. She is a beautiful 13 year old who is suffering from weak hind legs and some neurological issues, but she’s joyful and enjoying every minute of every day.
Jessie: Show your gratitude—every day. After we lost Samantha, I sobbed for weeks. For the first time in her life, Stella was our only dog and she too was depressed. I spent hours searching on-line for a rescue dog. Tears streamed down my face as I looked through hundreds of photos of dogs who desperately needed homes. And then I saw her face and I knew she had to be mine. She was behind bars and looked so sad but I knew her sadness would evaporate the minute we brought her home. She wagged her tail in appreciation and it’s never stopped. She is the most grateful, loyal and loving dog in the world. People always say how lucky Jessie was that we found her on that website. I say that we’re the lucky ones.
Dogs are sweet, appreciative, loving and loyal. They lick your tears away when you’re crying and romp with you when you’re happy. They are always happy to see you and they love you unconditionally. Please share some of the wonderful life lessons that you’ve learned from your dogs with us. And remember, as much as it hurts when you lose a 4-legged member of your family, never stop loving them. They will always love you back.
Smile & Be Thankful,
Molly
Ah how I miss my Dexter. He was “gratitude in full force”. I still get up the same time of day (early morning) even though I don’t have to walk him any more. Sometimes I run, sometimes I don’t. It is my time, used to be ours!
Dexter was a sweet, sweet boy. We all miss him. xoxo
I have shared in the lives of each one of these dogs and you brought back so many memories. Thank you.
You certainly have….and what wonderful memories we all have. Love you….
Some of my fondest memories are of Clyde and Ben in the pond at your house on Rome Corners, as well as Scott picking up Mitzi like a loaf of bread. As for Jessie and Stella – loved walking them in Philly!!! What you say about dogs is so observant and so true!
Thanks Jake. You too have been blessed with loving, loyal and wonderful furry children! You should write about them! Sending lots of love…
Well done Molly!
Thanks Chris…good dogs every one of them!
Oh, Molly…I loved reading about your wonderful dogs, many of who I knew and loved. Jim and I have absolutely fallen head over heels for our new little goldendoodle, Lila. She is hilarious and loving and smart and we are SO lucky to have her!! xo, Kimball
Kimball, you have so many stories to share about your dogs…mayb we should do a follow-up story about the dog psychic! Thanks for sending a photo of your new pup…wish you could have posted it here! Xoxox
Molly, thanks for sharing. I just recently became an adoptive parent of my 1st small dog. I have had all large dogs before. She is a great dog and I can fly anywhere with her on the plane (on my lap). It is a fun new experience!
I always think about how much fun it would be to have a small dog! You can pick them up and take them anywhere…maybe one of these days 🙂 Thanks for sharing Karen. Great to hear from you…
“I Want You to Love Me Like My Dog” by Billy Currington…sums up what they bring to our lives that nothing or NO-ONE else can! Annie and Jesse…not a day I don’t think about them. Thanks for sharing.
Awwww….Annie-bo-nanny and sweet Jessie. We sure do love those 4-legged creatures! Thanks so much for sharing Phoebe…great memories 🙂
Oh Molly – this was beautiful and so true. So what I’ve learned? A clean house without pet hair on every surface isn’t a home? (Cole has been gone for more than two years, but I still think about him every day.) Love you – Guidi
Cole was a good boy….except when he decided to eat my shoes for dinner! Another good memory 🙂 thanks Guidi….love you too!
“Don’t worry, be happy” would best describe the life lesson my first dog taught me. I was always a very, very light sleeper and worried about everything. The least little noise would wake me up at night. While attending school abroad one year, my parents brought Barney home. They sent me pictures of him growing up, but I didn’t see him until my return home the next year. Once we met, Barney became my constant companion and slept beside my bed at night. Knowing he was there to listen out for anything unusual allowed me to relax more, worry less, and sleep deeply. If there were ever any unusual noises, he was very quick to alert the family, because he was so very protective. I miss him very much, but he lived 17 wonderful years. I am glad he was my dog, and he will always hold a special place in my heart. 🙂
What a sweet story Rhonda. How lucky are you that Barney lived to 17!! Keep a strong hold on those wonderful memories. Thanks for sharing…
Loves reading this and yes dogs make a difference, when I’m down or lonely my Timmie always knows and he is right there under me!
Dogs make all the difference in the world! Thanks for taking the time to comment!